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Jul
21

Win Friends & Influence People: Four Images You Need to Know

July 21st, 2008

Iconic Interpersonal Skills

All photos Flickr: Titanic by moore fun, Smooth Handle by Weeping-Willow
Harp By Canonsnapper, Shoes photo by 7-how-7

YOU need everyone’s help to become successful - to realize your ideal future (period).

Since “no one is as smart as everyone” and inter-dependence (TEAMwork) is the highest form of maturity, (see maturity continuum, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey) you will, at some point in your life - come to recognize this truth, hopefully sooner rather than later.

The great news is, everyone will make you successful much faster than no one. So, if you think you can go it alone – you’re in for a rude awakening. This is elaborated upon fully in “The 3 C’s” - a sobering lesson for me indeed!

Respectfully submitted for your review are four images (above) to be mindful of as you interact with other people (yes, relatives are people too) on a daily basis. These four images are tied to various interpersonal anecdotes which provide sage guidance and insight for you along your way to creating your ideal future.

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Jul
14

Peace begins with YOU

July 14th, 2008
Flickr: by Delphien ExperiencesFlickr: by Delphien Experiences. Post by: Mitch W. Steel

“There is no way to happiness; happiness is the way.” ~Buddha

Character matters. Peace is realized through a carefully refined character. Balance equals harmony, harmony equals peace, peace equals love. To find peace therefore, your character must ‘know’ - must become balance and harmony and only through these you will know love. Character, refined character is the only path to inner peace which provides lifelong fulfillment. Resolve today to refine your character. Micro equals macro. To correct ourselves is to correct the planet. The only way you can make character corrections is to perform a thorough analysis of your character which presumes awareness,

“It’s a great day in a man’s life when he sits down and has a long talk with himself” ~ Napoleon Hill

“The life unexamined is not worth living” ~ Socrates

It is no stretch to say that the extent to which you are able to develop these character traits and score highly on all these personal qualities will be proportional to your ability to realize enduring success.

If we could fast-forward 20 years, your overall satisfaction with your life would be directly proportional to your overall score on this page…
(excerpt: “The 3 C’s” eBook by Mitch W. Steel)

As a reaction to that statement and the general work involved in refining one’s character, most people typically begin to question the validity of this theory – and start to consider other people. They tend to say “what about… Nancy or Jim or… all the other examples of successful people who have not refined their character?”
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Jul
11

The Profoundly Creative Experience

July 11th, 2008


And the men who hold high places
must be the ones to start,
to mold a new reality – closer to the heart.
The blacksmith and the artist –
reflect it in their art,
they forge their creativity
Closer to the heart
“Closer to the heart” ~ Rush
~~~~~

If you want to create an apple pie from scratch
you first have to create the universe.

~Carl Sagan

Creativity – your essence.

The very word conjures up images of poets leisurely writing poems . . . artists with abundant talent painting masterpiece after masterpiece that future generations will come to admire.

A romantic version of creativity? You bet. Real? Not by a long shot! If creativity isn’t a word you associate with your everyday life or “SUCCESS” then it’s absolutely vital you change your mindset—now. Far too many people – before they even graduate high school have already begun to disassociate their creativity from their personality. Taught to assume a life of responsibility instead of creativity. You might have been led to believe that you will have to choose between living the creative life or living a practical life.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

To excel at any endeavor–particularly in the business world–it’s essential that you embrace your creative essence. more… »


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Jul
01

11 Mindful ways to remove stress for good

July 1st, 2008

Stress Free Egret - by mikebaird
photo by: mikebaird flickr
post by Mitch W. Steel

“What do you do?” he asked, wondering how I manage stress. I must have had a mouth full of food “meditate”, I told him. He nodded his head knowingly and said - “right, which ones?” I looked at him strangely. “What?” I said. He then said, “What kind of medications do you take?” I quickly chuckled. Then realizing the serious nature of his misunderstanding…

“No man MEDITATE not MEDICATE” I said.

One of the most common requests I get is from people asking for ways to better manage stress. These are stressful times - OILflation combined with the remnants of a housing bubble aren’t making it any easier for anyone!

The other day, I was having lunch with a very successful fortune 500 executive (mid acquisition). Frankly, this great man was stressed beyond belief as company politics had him a state of fear. He was concerned about some “higher-ups” and some moves they may make.
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Jun
28

LOSER!?

June 28th, 2008

LOSER
photo: courtesy Flickr - by Ingorrr

Excerpt from “The 3C’s” The Ebook
by Mitch W. Steel

“There are two ways to live: You can live as if nothing is a miracle; or, you can live as if everything is a miracle.”
Albert Einstein

Either everything is a miracle or nothing is. So which is it?

That is a question you ought to dwell upon for a good, long while. For, it suggests that if you consider ANYTHING a miracle – then, everything ought to be considered such. And, since you don’t have answers to everything – this would suggest then that everything is indeed a miracle. Taken one step further then – you (my brother or sister) are part of everything. Therefore, you are a miracle! You are NO loser!

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May
21

Are you tapped in?

May 21st, 2008

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photo courtesy http://www.flickr.com/photos/jckhamken
post by Mitch W. Steel

here’s a quote I’m rather fond of… It rephrases the age old proverb, “necessity is the mother of invention” to “necessity isn’t the mother of invention – invention is.”

Napoleon Hill wrote the all-time classic personal development book, Think and Grow Rich. The book is based on his 20-year study of the greatest minds of his time, including Henry Ford and Thomas Edison. He discovered from this exercise that there human creativity took basically two different forms – synthetic imagination and creative vision.

Synthetic imagination joins your pre-existing ideas, your concepts and your products and transforms them into something completely different, into a completely new form or a new, unanticipated solution to a problem. Very little of what is created today is absolutely original – from scratch, if you will. In fact, many of our greatest inventions are based upon the concept of synthetic imagination. Perhaps that is what Isaac Newton said when he attributed his greatest discoveries to the ability to “stand on the shoulders of giants.”

Really when you consider it further necessity, in reality, is the GRANDMOTHER of invention.

For example, the garbage can. Yes, the lowly, smelly garbage can. The original intent of the garbage can was to have a receptacle to place the garbage collected during the course of a week in your household. A simple enough need.

Soon, the garbage bag was invented. One invention – the garbage can – spawned yet another invention, the garbage BAG. This, in a nutshell, is synthetic imagination. In other words, this is simply a creative way to combine two pre-existing ideas or inventions.

The second type of creativity is creative vision. more… »


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May
11

So, YOU Want To Be Successful? Here’s a thought… Define It!

May 11th, 2008

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Photo courtesy flickr, photos from tiseb - http://www.flickr.com/photos/tiseb/
post by Mitch W. Steel - excerpt from “The 3 C’s” The Success eBook

Words of wisdom all around
but no one ever seems to listen
They talk about their plans on the paper
Building up from the pavement
mm hm
there’re shadows from the scrapers on the pavement
mm hm
It’s enough to make me sigh
but that don’t seem like it would make it feel better
The words are all around
but the words are only sounds
and no one ever seems to listen
~ jack johnson “traffic in the sky”

Do you have a definition of success?
I’ve taught hundreds of students for over five years. Every time I ask this simple question: “Who wants to be successful?” every single person raises his hand. At this point, I actually have inverted the question to simply be, “who does NOT want to be successful.” Just to verify that not a single person will raise their hand. Obviously, it is unanimous, EVERYONE WANTS TO BE SUCCESSFUL. This of course is where the “fun” begins… more… »


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Apr
01

technorati made me do this

April 1st, 2008

just a quick post - has been back-dated to provide the blog “claim” they require.

Sitting peacefully doing nothing
Spring comes and the grass grows all by itself.